Choosing a Legal Officiant in New York State

What You Need to Know Before You Say “I Do”

When it comes to your wedding, you want every detail to be perfect — especially the part where you legally become married. But with so many options out there (including well-meaning friends, online ordinations, and one-day permits), it can be hard to know who’s actually allowed to marry you in New York State.

This section is here to help. Below, you’ll find everything you need to make sure your officiant is fully legal — and that your marriage will hold up in court, in life, and in love.

Helpful Articles and Resources

Click on the titles below to link to each article.

Can We Legally Marry You? Yes!

Spoiler alert: we’re 100% legal, no online ordinations here. Here’s how we’re different.

Are Online Ordinations Legal on Long Island? (And Should You Worry?)

Not all ordinations are created equal. Here’s what New York State does — and doesn’t — recognize.

Considering Using a Friend or Family Member as Your Wedding Officiant?

A guide to making it meaningful and successful — with tips, coaching options, and legal guidance.

Single Day Wedding Officiant Permit in New York

Your friend or relative may be able to legally marry you — but only with this permit in hand.

Want It Personal and Legal?

We offer options that combine the best of both worlds — A ceremony created and delivered flawlessly and legally by our team, have a loved one lead the ceremony while we take care of the legal side, or bring us in to coach or co-officiate so your day flows beautifully, and your paperwork is rock solid.